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Stardew's Friendship Points: Guide

Author:Kristen Update:Jan 10,2025

Stardew Valley: A Comprehensive Guide to Maximizing Friendship

Forging strong bonds with the residents of Pelican Town is crucial in Stardew Valley. This guide details how to cultivate friendships, from casual conversations to thoughtful gift-giving, ensuring you maximize your relationships. While talking and gifting are key, understanding the nuances of the friendship system is essential for success.

The Heart System

The heart system, accessed via the in-game menu, tracks your relationship with each NPC. Each heart represents 250 friendship points. Reaching heart milestones unlocks special events, mail, and dialogue options. However, the heart count alone doesn't fully explain friendship gains and losses.

Friendship Point Breakdown

Reaching a single heart requires 250 points. Points are earned through positive interactions and lost through neglect or negative actions.

Boosting Friendship Gains

The "Friendship 101" book, obtainable from the Prize Machine (9th prize) or the Bookseller (Year 3, 9% chance), permanently boosts friendship gains by 10%. This applies to all positive interactions, not negative ones.

Interaction Point Values

  • Daily Conversations: +20 points (general conversation); +10 points (during activities). Ignoring a character results in a -2 point penalty per day (-10 with a bouquet, -20 for a spouse). A checkmark in the social menu indicates daily interaction.
  • Bulletin Board Deliveries: +150 points with the recipient.
  • Gifts:
    • Loved: +80 points
    • Liked: +45 points
    • Neutral: +20 points
    • Disliked: -20 points
    • Hated: -40 points
  • Special Occasions: Gifts given on the Feast of the Winter Star receive 5x points, while birthday gifts receive 8x points. This multiplier applies to negative gifts as well.
  • Stardrop Tea: This universally loved gift grants +250 points (+750 on birthdays/Feast of the Winter Star). It can be obtained from the Prize Machine, Golden Fishing Chests, Helper's Bundle, or Raccoon requests.
  • Movie Theater: Inviting someone to the movies using a Movie Ticket (1000g) yields varying points based on movie and concession choices. Loved movie: +200; Liked movie: +100; Loved concession: +50; Liked concession: +25.
  • Dialogue Choices: Conversation choices can yield +10 to +50 points, or result in point deductions. Heart Events offer similar opportunities for significant gains or losses.

Festivals and Events

  • Flower Dance: Dancing with an NPC (4 hearts or higher) grants +250 points.
  • Luau: Contributing to the community soup yields varying points based on the soup's quality.
  • Community Center (Bulletin Board Bundles): Completing all Bulletin Board bundles grants +500 points with every non-dateable villager.

This detailed breakdown empowers you to cultivate meaningful relationships in Stardew Valley. Remember to consider each NPC's preferences and utilize every opportunity to build your friendships.

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